Toledo “T.J.” Mulder, 80, a loving wife, mother, and grandmother, went home to be with her Lord and Savior, Monday, December 6, 2021. Memorial service will be held at 11 a.m., Friday, December 10, 2021 at Hilltop Family Church in Springtown. Memorials: In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Hilltop Family Church Women’s Ministry, of which Toledo was enthusiastically involved for many years. T.J. was born December 12, 1940 in Dallas to Vivian and Fred Cox. They preceded her in death, as well as her youngest child, a daughter, Mary Lou Mulder. T.J. had a long and highly successful career in banking, ultimately rising through the ranks in her industry to become a bank vice president. She was passionate about singing, jewelry making, and classic Hollywood musicals, but her most ardent passion lay in her love of the Lord. She is survived by her husband of 63 years, James “Bill” Mulder, a son, Michael Mulder, her siblings, Mana Bailey, Fred Cox, special blended family members, Jim and Debbie Barber, seven grandchildren, and numerous nieces and nephews.